Obviously I'm just coming off as stuck up snot nose brat, so I'm going to quite talking after I add this- I'm not looking for her to lie. I respect that she is simply being truthful. However, She does not
have to be truthful in a rude way. That is just what I got from the way she put it. But you're right. I can't expect her to say things in a nice way if she feels like saying it rudely. Apparently that's just too much to ask these days on the internet.