I am 5'10" with a 32in inseam, 130lbs.... my western saddle is 16 and then english I just ordered is a 19. I fit in my daughters size 12 western (not the stirrups, just the seat)..... I have also been riding my cousins 15 english with no complaints......but I guess I don't know what I am looking for in fit for me- I have no complaints with my western saddles fit-it feels perfect and I am comfortable in it.
What do you ride on and what are your measurements (height at least)? How do you know if it fits well, both english and western.
How do you know if the fit is wrong? (just for me, not the horse)