Hello! My horse right now is being ridden in a Happy Mouth but chew through them to quick and I don't really like having to warm up metal in the winter. I was thinking of putting him in a hackamore. He direct reins, neck rein, and moves off leg movements. I ride 5 times a week and do barrels. I don't show often so most of my riding is just for fun. I would love to get my horse another Happy Mouth but they are to darn expensive to replace every few months. What is the softest hack I can buy for him? I like Little S hackamore. How harsh are these? I Thanks! :)