Angi, could you work with the store that allows returns? This way you could take it on trial, so if it's a bad fit or you don't like it you could just return. I know shipping etc. is costly, but it may be cheaper than getting one just to find out it doesn't fit (I had to sell my saddle: got it and it was a bad fit, I lost quite a lot of money on it :( ).
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