I'm going to post a pic here in the photos section, well it seems like a good place
I first posted this pic in the "Say something nice about the horse above you" thread, I think I have shared it elsewhere on the board without comment.
This time I received a very helpful and polite pm pointing out one persons view of the saddle fit and suggestions how to correct it. I thought it was very nice of the person to take the time to do that, BUT, now I'm left with a dilemma, I don't see the issue that she mentioned, and no one else has said anything, so now I don't know if we are all missing something, or if my helpful friend is wrong.
So I'm now I'm left with a niggling doubt over this saddle, and its fit.
If they had posted the same polite message on the board, then it's possible others would have given their thoughts and I could balance the feedback from all posters, and maybe come to a better decision. At the same time other people who are reading but not participating maybe will learn something as well, and can look at saddle fit a little bit differently.
There is a huge difference I know between someone being snarky about a picture, and someone being polite and helpful, but this is why I prefer open discussions, then we all may learn something