I mostly use Ovation™ Crochet Back Riding Gloves with VelcroŽ | Dover Saddlery in a summer (those holes really help to keep hands cool). However even though I have rather small hands (for my height :) ), I go with the biggest size (otherwise the fingers are too short). Since you are the guy I'd look into something specifically for men.
Heritage Tackified Pro-Air Show gloves. So soft and flexible - like a second skin. My fingers are small and the bunching up at the finger joint of other gloves makes closing the hands difficult so I love these! :: Heritage Performance Riding Gloves :: Posted via Mobile Device