So Ive been at this stable for 5 months now, and overall, I love it! I loove the people, I love the facillity, and I really gotten used to the rutine. The only problem is the stableowner. Fisrt she was telling me I couldnt free lunge my horse as she would stop listening to her workers when they where leading her. I asked if there had been any problems that I could help with, but no, she was fine, okey, then whats the problem? well, even with that it WAS a problem for the stable owner and I had to get a line to lunge her in. (NOTE: I was not free lunging her when there where other people wanting to use the place, I came at times it would be empty and if somebody wanted to come in, I would quicklly snatch her up and leave them to their riding) Okey, fine, I could work with that, it wasnt a huge deal.
Then I was riding out with Hubble, and due to an unknown problem she had, that I did not know about, I fell off, and she ran back to the stable. I was riding bitless, something I pretty much always did, and from that moment on, I was only allowed to ride bitless when I was all alone in the arena. Fine, I was too tierd to argue, and got myself a bridle with a bit that I now use. I dont like it, Hubble sure as hell dont, although she accepts it.
Now then, this morning she called and told me I needed to cover my horse up as the wether was getting cold. Yes, it was cold, and my horse is pretty skinny as shes hard to gain weight on. But it wasnt so cold that Id need to cover her up, I wasnt even too cold in a jumper... but gave the stable owner premission to put her cover on if she wanted to. I got the responce that Id needed to keep one on her from now on and that she needs to have one by tommorow. I agreed to that,becuase there is no point in arguning when she has her decission made and decided to go out in the morning to put it on her, but nope, still not good enough, now at night she calls me telling me that if Im going to be staying there I need to listen to what she says and follow her rules. That my horse is not gaining weight (Although shes getting a hell of a lot better, and she knows it) and that Im overfeeding her, and that if animal controll comes out again, shes not gonig to "save my ***" (She was refering to when I had just gotten her and animal controll got a call on a skinny horse, they saw the horse, got the onfo she was new, and dropped the case).
That I was going to come put one on in the morning was not at all good enough, and it was literally a telling, that if you do not keep her coverd 24/7, your going.
I feel so lost in what to do. Ive started to look for another stable, because at this point, its just getting silly, but there are 3 months I need to stay before I offically can leave, and I cant pay for 2 stable rents at the time. She is driving me to the point where I dont want to go out there at all anymore, in fear of even meeting with her.
What would you do? I am aqcctually dreading going there, and will have my sister go out tommorow so I dont have to meet with her, but, I cant "hide" from her for 3 months and not see my horse... Nether can I avoid her as she lives ast the stable and comes and goes whenever.
Has anybody been in the same situation, and what did you do? I feel so stressed out by it all I just want to, well not go back there at all...
Then I was riding out with Hubble, and due to an unknown problem she had, that I did not know about, I fell off, and she ran back to the stable. I was riding bitless, something I pretty much always did, and from that moment on, I was only allowed to ride bitless when I was all alone in the arena. Fine, I was too tierd to argue, and got myself a bridle with a bit that I now use. I dont like it, Hubble sure as hell dont, although she accepts it.
Now then, this morning she called and told me I needed to cover my horse up as the wether was getting cold. Yes, it was cold, and my horse is pretty skinny as shes hard to gain weight on. But it wasnt so cold that Id need to cover her up, I wasnt even too cold in a jumper... but gave the stable owner premission to put her cover on if she wanted to. I got the responce that Id needed to keep one on her from now on and that she needs to have one by tommorow. I agreed to that,becuase there is no point in arguning when she has her decission made and decided to go out in the morning to put it on her, but nope, still not good enough, now at night she calls me telling me that if Im going to be staying there I need to listen to what she says and follow her rules. That my horse is not gaining weight (Although shes getting a hell of a lot better, and she knows it) and that Im overfeeding her, and that if animal controll comes out again, shes not gonig to "save my ***" (She was refering to when I had just gotten her and animal controll got a call on a skinny horse, they saw the horse, got the onfo she was new, and dropped the case).
That I was going to come put one on in the morning was not at all good enough, and it was literally a telling, that if you do not keep her coverd 24/7, your going.
I feel so lost in what to do. Ive started to look for another stable, because at this point, its just getting silly, but there are 3 months I need to stay before I offically can leave, and I cant pay for 2 stable rents at the time. She is driving me to the point where I dont want to go out there at all anymore, in fear of even meeting with her.
What would you do? I am aqcctually dreading going there, and will have my sister go out tommorow so I dont have to meet with her, but, I cant "hide" from her for 3 months and not see my horse... Nether can I avoid her as she lives ast the stable and comes and goes whenever.
Has anybody been in the same situation, and what did you do? I feel so stressed out by it all I just want to, well not go back there at all...