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        02-11-2014, 10:06 AM
      #1571
    Weanling
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    Originally Posted by DraftyAiresMum    
    I might be joining the dating scene again sooner rather than never. *sigh* I've about reached the end of my rope with Robert.
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    I'm sorry. I always hate to hear bad news. But you really need to take care of you first! If you're unhappy, the only person you can count on to make it better is yourself.
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        02-11-2014, 11:49 AM
      #1572
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by DraftyAiresMum    
    I might be joining the dating scene again sooner rather than never. *sigh* I've about reached the end of my rope with Robert.
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    Sorry Drafty. It's been a bumpy road, hasn't it? Sending hugs your way.
         
        02-11-2014, 12:26 PM
      #1573
    Yearling
    I think guys are mostly easy to figure out ... but that's because I am a guy

    We work just as well on the barter system as we do on the praise system
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        02-11-2014, 12:27 PM
      #1574
    Yearling
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    Originally Posted by jmike    
    i think guys are mostly easy to figure out ... but that's because I am a guy

    We work just as well on the barter system as we do on the praise system
    My husband and I use the barter system all the time....I'll do the dishes if you do....
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        02-11-2014, 12:40 PM
      #1575
    Yearling
    I actually really enjoyed the most recent time I was single - it was extremely productive as far as physical & mental health goes, and I discovered a ton about who I was and who I wanted to be, after having lost myself to focus entirely on couple-dom in that failed relationship. I reconnected with an old friend, and it gradually turned into a romance which has just hit the 3 year mark. In this relationship, I'm working hard to keep a workable balance of "us" vs "me" time and life is SO much better.
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        02-12-2014, 08:41 AM
      #1576
    Weanling
    Drafty, what will be will be, if you and Robert break up, you will still be you and you sound like a great person. If he wants to miss out on that opportunity by being an ass, then that's up to him.

    Maple, like you said, sometimes things just happen when you weren't planning it. I always swore I would never live in the town where I grew up, and I'd never marry a farmer. Yet here I am, living about ten km from my childhood home, married to a farmer LOL
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        02-13-2014, 01:48 PM
      #1577
    Foal
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    Originally Posted by Maple    
    What's meant for you won't pass you - don't feel the need to be in a relationship, fighting over who has all the blankets isn't all it's cracked up to be :)
    Thanks guys :) you have really helped me feel slightly better. I just hate that I haven't even been back "on the scene" a month and I'm already wondering why the hell I try lol

    Sorry to hear that Drafty :( Reaching the end of your rope is never a pleasant or easy thing, but in the long run you will be much happier if you break loose before spending any more time trying to fit a square peg into a round hole :(
         
        02-13-2014, 03:11 PM
      #1578
    Yearling
    Sorry you're feeling down :( Hopefully your outlook will improve as spring weather arrives!
         
        02-13-2014, 10:14 PM
      #1579
    Foal
    Hello all my name is jack I'm 37 almost in the 40s lol. My wife and I met the 4 months later we were married been married 6 years now this is where I ask her to marry me over looking a bluff on a 4 wheeler ride had the ring in my pocket all ride just waiting on the perfect spot then I found it happy valentines day y'all
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        02-17-2014, 09:19 AM
      #1580
    Cat
    Green Broke
    Looks so romantic!
         

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