What a great thing for your BF to have done Drafty! I admit I'm pretty envious of people who have awesome boyfriends.
Unfortunately my BF situation isn't going so great, and I might be back on the dating market before too long. We live 3 hours apart and he owns his own business, and has been working 18+ hour days the majority of the past 5 months for a huge project that's been going on. He's a one-man show so everything that goes wrong rests squarely on his shoulders. So basically...that means we haven't seen one another in 5 months
I've suggested I come up to see him- 3 hours is nothing. But that idea gets a "Yeah that might work" and never spoken of again. He can find the time to go out with his family and spend time at their houses, or do other things, but apparently not the time for me to come up for a weekend or even an overnight.
Everyone I know thinks I should just move on at this point, and I'm starting to agree with them. Just...mixed signals ahoy. We're both divorcees, and he's admitted to being gunshy. But I'm tending to believe "gunshyness" is just another descriptor for "He's just not that into you".