I don't like kids, in spite of having 3 of my own.
I bet you guys think I'm just an awful person now. lol
Nope, and nope. I'll be honest in saying that I don't like most people's kids. See, so many parents today let their kids be horrible, rude entitled little monsters, then wonder why the heck their kids turn out to be horrible, spoiled, nasty, rude young adults. LOL. Easy answer: no boundaries, no rules, no discipline. Kinda like those idiots who let their horses do whatever they want because they're fantasizing, then get pegged in the face with a hoof/kicked/thrown/stomped and/or bitten, and keep making excuses...the only difference, really, is the thinking that human beings are different/better than animals...though I guess that holds some water in this case, because you can just Euth a horse, but not your kids...problem solved.
Yeah, I know I'm weird. /tangent
Alex, all three states are being stupid. CA is my state of record, but I"d been in PA for four years. PA stepped in even though there wasn't an emergency... technically they shouldn't do that, and they should have reviewed our EIGHT YEARS OF COURT FILE. AZ is where my ex lives, and their police told me to file there. CA stepped out after the second go in court after my (CA) lawyer dropped the ball with the paperwork the first time. Anyway AZ is looking my best bet, but I may or may not have to move there. She's been there 5 months now, and he's fighting me that he doesn't want this taken to AZ. Well he can't keep it here, seeing as how I"m moving!!! Plus I have to file in the jurisdiction that SHE lives in. The thing I"m looking for is if we get a different judge, they may actually DO THEIR JOB, versus this one. At this point, a third lawyer in a third state is looking like my option lol.
Family court is a special hell I definitely wouldn't wish on anyone.
@Back--thank you so very much for your kindness! I'll definitely let you know if anything is over your way....the kindness of others is something that I think everyone (including me!) could stand to see more of these days.
Anyway smoking is kinda gross guys, and expensive. Though not much better than what I do....I EAT. If I'm stressed out, I nibble. I think I'm up over 40 pounds from when I moved to this state! So my stress is kinda obvious! The odd thing is, I gained like 8 pounds this past week even though I haven't been eating differently/more? O_O
...I think it would have been better, at that rate, to be a smoker.
Oh yeah and btw (the obligatory), smoking is bad and it kills you. Think of the extra horsey toys you all could be buying if you saved that money in a piggy bank somewhere. ;)