Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, so they say.
You know how some people feel they were born in the wrong body? They are a girl on the outside, but they know they are really a boy? Well some of us were born in cities, to poor bemused parents who couldn't understand that to me wearing jeans under a full length bridesmaid dress was quite reasonable, who had a cowboy outfit, rode bareback, trailed mud, straw and muck all over their nice city house.
I escaped as soon as I could, but it took me to my late 40's to find where I was meant to be, where I can wear jeans and cowboy boots, where no one bats an eye f I have fencing pliers in my belt while I'm shopping.
Don't judge, try and understand, some are wanna be's some of us are has to be's