Aww, Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreciate it!
Ellie has had a lesson this morning with one of her instructors.....................AND she jumped!!! Hooray!! She was on the lunge, but she didn't care. First she did a bit of pole work and then he put a small jump up, about 1foot. She did brilliant, I'm so pleased with her. AND when he jumped, he landed in canter, so she's experienced that now too. He only did a few strides, but hey, its a start!
:roll: There's going to be no stopping her now! :roll: