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        03-27-2010, 12:28 PM
      #11
    Weanling
    All I know is that 2 hours had passed from the time I put their hay out until the time I got the text from the b/o. I know that when I turned the horses out they ran past the hay and around the barn to graze. Not sure what time, if they did, come back for their hay. They are accustomed to getting it in the top pasture, lol. I was concerned that almost 40-50 pounds of sweet feed could cause problems, considering they only eat 2 cups of oats am and pm. I'm a relatively new horse owner, and very protective of my girl. It freaked me out because when my b/o was away in October, her beloved Percheron gelding died in my arms of a heart attack. I was reacting as though I could lose another one. I doubt she will get another house sitter, haha. This girl is the girlfriend of her son or something like that. I just told her plain as day to say they hell away and call me from here on out.
         
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        03-27-2010, 01:18 PM
      #12
    Banned
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by centrestableswendy    
    All I know is that 2 hours had passed from the time I put their hay out until the time I got the text from the b/o. I know that when I turned the horses out they ran past the hay and around the barn to graze. Not sure what time, if they did, come back for their hay. They are accustomed to getting it in the top pasture, lol. I was concerned that almost 40-50 pounds of sweet feed could cause problems, considering they only eat 2 cups of oats am and pm. I'm a relatively new horse owner, and very protective of my girl. It freaked me out because when my b/o was away in October, her beloved Percheron gelding died in my arms of a heart attack. I was reacting as though I could lose another one. I doubt she will get another house sitter, haha. This girl is the girlfriend of her son or something like that. I just told her plain as day to say they hell away and call me from here on out.

    So, your reaction was based in fear. Understandable. And as I said, you have a 'right' to feel as you do.

    40lbs-50lbs of sweet feed is an entire BAG. Maybe I misread, but I thought you said she fed a 'bucket'?

    I just happen to have a bag of sweet feed here....for a 500kg horse....1100lbs...the daily recommended amount for an active pleasure horse is 2.8kgs...just over 6lbs. Then of course the label goes on to say to adjust that amount up or down for the needs of specific individuals.

    So a 'bucket' for three horses....yeah, likely nothing to worry about if the horses are in general good health and don't have any specific issues like severe allergies, founder etc...
         
        03-27-2010, 01:41 PM
      #13
    Foal
    I would be very very angry. But then again I get peeved when the bo butes my horse with out calling me first.

    Actually that much grain can do a number on a horse, especially if they're not used to it. I probably wouldnt grain them again at night after that.
         
        03-27-2010, 01:59 PM
      #14
    Showing
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by centrestableswendy    
    Ok, just wanted to see if I'm overreacting. My b/o has been out of town for a week, and my hubby and I have been feeding and turning out in the morning and doing stalls and feeding in the evening. I went out this morning and gave all 3 horses their grain. While they were eating I went to put their hay out in the pasture. We've had a lot of rain this past week, so I decided to put the hay piles in the paddock area right outside the barn on the gravel, to give the pasture a chance to dry out for a few hours. I got a text from my b/o after I got home, who was at the airport 4 states away. It was a forward from the girl who is staying in her house while she is gone, saying the horses weren't fed this morning, so she took it upon herself to feed them. Rather than call me(number is in the barn, on my mare's stall, AND in the house, she chose to mess with the horses and text the b/o. This girl knows NOTHING about horses, and filled a 5 gallon bucket with sweet feed(the horses only get oats, the sweet feed is for the goats), and 2 full bales of hay and took it to them in the pasture. The horses had been grained and given hay not 2 hours prior. Am I out of line for being upset??? I called her and explained to her that if any of the horses colic or have any issues because of this, it will be her responsibility to pay vet bills, and asked her to not have ANYTHING to do with my mare. I just needed to rant, lol. Cookies if you made it all the way through!
    Oh waw, I think you have all rights to be furious. Have you called the BO back to explain the actual situation? If your barn owner knows you, she should know what the actual situation is with how you handle feedings etc. She should know you wouldn't do something like this I'm sure.

    I would make sure to explain all this to her and I would definitely given a piece of my mind to this house sitter, whoever she is and made it clear to her to stay away from your(the) horses.

    Keep us posted on the situation.
         
        03-27-2010, 02:25 PM
      #15
    Started
    I would be upset, too.
    But I can give the girl a few brownie points for caring enough to at least try to feed the horses. Even if she did it wrong, she meant well. I would be more upset about the fact that she didn't ask YOU about it before jumping the gun and telling the BO that you didn't feed them. And I don't think getting extra food one time will hurt the horses. If I was you, I would just take the girl out and show her what to do in case she ever did need to feed them. And ask her to call you before making assumptions again.
         
        03-27-2010, 02:41 PM
      #16
    Banned
    If you want to be upset be upset with the BO not the girl house sitting. She was trying to be helpful. The BO should have set down the rules so that the house sitter understood them. Period.

    I have to agree, a boat load of hay and a bucket of feed given to three horses is not going to do any harm.
         
        03-28-2010, 02:56 AM
      #17
    Started
    When you have the chance, I would explain to her about the consequences of overfeeding horses. Explain to her that it can kill them. It really sounds like a simple case of ignorance to me.
         
        03-28-2010, 03:43 AM
      #18
    Weanling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by sandy2u1    
    It really sounds like a simple case of ignorance to me.
    really, this is what it sounds like to me. However, I also wouldn't be HAPPY about it, however I seriously doubt that it'll hurt them. Hay never hurt a horse, mine eat free choice on round bales all winter and nary a problem. If it was any more grain than what they got, I would be watching them closely for the rest of the day, however I doubt that you'll have any problems.
         
        03-28-2010, 03:54 AM
      #19
    Weanling
    Thanks everyone. The BO came home Saturday afternoon, and we had a talk. She had told her house sitter, in NO uncertain terms, that the horses were off limits to her, and if she had any questions she was to call me. The bucket that she gave them was one of those big plastic buckets with the metal handles you can get at Lowes. 10 gallon bucket, filled with sweet feed. The horses are doing fine, but I made sure they didn't get any grain tonight. Even if she was just "trying to help", the repercussions could have been much worse. I explained to her earlier the dangers of overfeeding, and she agreed if there were any problems she would pay any and all vet bills. I think some of my anger was due to the fact that she contacted the BO who was 4 states away and told her I hadn't fed the horses, rather than pick up the phone and call me(my number is in 3 easily accessible and very visible places), in the house and the barn, all of which she had to walk past to get to the grain. It's over and done with, but I appreciate having somewhere to vent! =)
         
        03-29-2010, 08:21 AM
      #20
    Banned
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by centrestableswendy    
    The bucket that she gave them was one of those big plastic buckets with the metal handles you can get at Lowes. 10 gallon bucket, filled with sweet feed.
    I am guessing you really mean a five gallon bucket.

    Yes, 10 gallons sounds more dramatic, but most likely it was a five gallon bucket.

    Linky to bucket photo


    I also think if you were THAT worried about the horses health and well being you would have called the vet right out.
         

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