Not now, my husband is into the same things. We both love roping and ranch rodeos. He isn't into showing but he completely supports me in doing so. But we can get along doing those things together. He don't tell me how to ride my horses and I don't tell him how to ride his! We respect each other opinions and pick each others brains, but we don't get pushy with our opinions.
He never complains if I want to spend the money to go ride with a trainer, if anything he encourages me. And I encourage him to do things that I may not be interested in doing. It is all about balance.
Before I was married and dating, it was an issue. I don't think of horses as a hobby it is my lifestyle.
I DON'T LEAD 'EM AND FEED 'EM, I RIDE 'EM AND SLIDE 'EM.