The horse came after the relationship. When I told him I wanted to buy one, he looked shocked and was silent for a while, but ended up saying, "If it makes you happy." When that horse bucked me off and I broke my ankle, he refused to allow me to give up. He knew how much I wanted the horsey life, and now he enjoys going to the farm to see my current horse, Smoke. They have man-time... Smoke snoozes while Jon brushes him. It's adorable. Bf hopes to have his own horse someday.
So glad I found a guy who tolerates my obsession, and even more than that, a guy who I converted into a horsey person! Muah haha.