Just wondering if anybody else out there hates the drama that happens at a lot of barns. I can't stand it, my old barn I liked because it was like being in a group, everybody was polite and took care of their own stuff, even though everybody was different ages and rode different horses, disciplines etc. everybody was friendly or at least civil to one another, and helped each other out. The barn I'm at now [I'm looking for another] is just ridiculous. There's way less people and horses but all the spats and arguments and drama is unbelievable. Of course, there's one person who it's mainly stemming from but it looks like she's here to stay. Of course there were a FEW issues at the old place but NOTHING compared to here. It's too much, I mean, I never know if someones going to speak to me when I say hi or who's fighting with who and who's not speaking to her. Unbelievable. And the horses end up getting brought into it also.
I really don't know what makes the atmosphere at this barn so different and I'm wondering who has the drama issue at their barn and who doesn't? I'm sure it can't just be mine, right???lol