Duffy, if you are serious about competing and your trainer thinks she doesn't fit in as a dressage horse, but would be a nice jumper, then I think you do the right thing. Wish you best luck finding a great home for her and finding the horse that suits your needs! (P.S. And if she gets sold close to your place you can always visit :) ).
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