Frustrating! lol.

StomyBlues, This month I think. Im not riding her right now due to heat, and working with my goats for show.

Ok, today was the perfect day to work with the horses... so we did "maintenance" on the horses... you know.. sheath cleaning, etc... Well I decided after I cleaned Phillips out (which was totally rank *passes out* it smelled like rotten peaches.), to clean Savannah's udder, vulva, and just make sure nothing was wrong in her little "area's". Well her udders were totally packed with gunk, which also smelled like rotten peaches, and really just scrubbed this black gunk out. Appaerntly, she likes it lol.. I thought I was going to get kicked so I even wore my helmet lmao... but that wasnt nessicary, she didnt even put her ears back.

Then I cleaned up her little.. err... area, which was also kind of crusty.I cleaned it with mild soap and water... then I played with her and she listen better..

What im getting at is could that be one of her problems? Uncleaned crusty, sore vulva and udder?

You never know. It could have been sore boobs or girly bits - stranger things have happened!
Give it a little more time, get her vet - checked and if you are not meshing, move on and get something else that feels like a better fit. I believe that some horses and people just don't gel - I may get crucified for saying it, but that's been my experience.
GL and I hope it all works out!