I had a mare she refused to give me a good barrel run, but my boyfriend has her now & she gives it her all with him. -_- made me so mad! But, horses are like us, if they don't click with someone, they just don't click. I have a three year old stud & he gives his all at everything for me, but won't behave at all with anyone else. I've just had better experiences & rides out of geldings than mares, but my first horse was a mare & she taught me alot. (:
Sit tall in the saddle, hold your head up high, keep your eyes fixed where the trail meets the sky, & live like you aint afraid to die, & don't be scared, just enjoy your ride.