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    10-11-2010, 02:00 AM
  #1
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Angry He's not his he's mine!

Just a little peeve of mine. *pee now this might be lengthy*

So everyone knows the story of Kevin and Sammy right? If you don't here's long story short, if you do feel free to skip this: I bought Sammy for Kevin who had hired me as his trainer, was going to reimburse me in two payments for purchase of the horse plus 20% finders fee (lesson learned I'll have a written contract for the next client). The minute I get Sammy to the barn Kevin doesn't want him, says he's afraid of horses, then he only wanted a horse to get into girls pants ( WHAT!!!!),refuses to reimburse me for the horse and disappears. I freak and finally find a half lease to cover my butt until I can get back on my toes from this. Found a half lease/lesson student for Sammy, she's wonderful. Kevin is now legally not allowed near the barn, me, or my animals especially (and it's in writing he's not allowed near Sammy).


Ok. So my sister (just a very close childhood friend sister like) emails me and lets me know Kevin still has pictures of Sammy on his facebook. At first I shrug it off, then I go look and not only does he have pictures but now they say he's HIS horse, AND there are people commenting saying he's so lucky to have a horse and all that. That bothers me because that's my horse, not his. What if they want to ride him? They can't, he's mine, I don't share green horses with "oooo he's pretty" people. I don't have Kevin as a friend on facebook and messaged him asking him nicely to either please correct people or delete the images. No response, nothing happens, their still up today. One of my students notices this and comments nicely after an "awww you have a horse that's so cute!" comment, that "well he did have a horse but because of his inexperience and work/money issues he decided it best to turn the ownership over to the trainer" She tagged Sammy as mine as well. No response, no come back from Kevin, nothing which is a good thing I think. I guess the comment bothered my student too.

I know it shouldn't bother me but he's not allowed near the horse, he didn't want the horse for anything but to get girls in the first place (which he lied about until I had the horse at the barn), and bottom line Sammy is NOT HIS HORSE. I have it in writing from the seller that he's in my name and she received the money FROM ME. On top of that, according to my sister Kevin can't figure out for the life of him why he got a legal letter saying to stay away from me and my animals. He doesn't see anything wrong with what happened. AND he's been fishing through my friends list, found the girl who leases him and has been harassing her about the horse. She's repeatedly told him to leave her alone and he just recently stopped contacting her.

Sorry for the novel. I had to get it off my chest. I'm not asking for advice or anything. I'm just complaining.
     
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    10-11-2010, 02:15 AM
  #2
Banned
He just sounds like a young kid, and you have done nothing wrong just keep doing what you are doing and ignore him.
     
    10-11-2010, 02:22 AM
  #3
Green Broke
I'd be upset too. You went through a lot of time, effort and money to get the horse! Definitely chalk it up to a lesson learned and hopefully you won't have to deal with him anymore. Hang in there!
     
    10-11-2010, 03:37 AM
  #4
Yearling
Unfriend him. If he just wanted a horse to get girls, that is what he is doing now. "Yeah, baby, I've got a horse, maybe I'll let you ride him if you're nice to me." If you can't read that stuff, it won't upset you. He is not allowed at the barn anyway, and if any stranger shows up to ride Sammy, you can let her know that she has been used and misinformed. No one allowed on him but you and the girl who leases him.
     
    10-11-2010, 04:50 AM
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Oh he hasn't been on my friends since May but that doesn't mean I can't still see everything on his page since it hasn't been set to private in his personal settings. It would almost be better if he'd block everything from outside of friends view because a lot of things on his page shouldn't be public view anyway.
I intend to set any stranger straight if one were to show up but it's the idea he's trying to use my horse as a panty getter. It really bothers me. I just really wish he'd do the right thing for once and take down the pictures of my horse. It's doing more harm than good on his end anyway. Especially if he does get a girl wanting to meet the horse.
     
    10-11-2010, 11:07 AM
  #6
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Originally Posted by drafts4ever    
Oh he hasn't been on my friends since May but that doesn't mean I can't still see everything on his page since it hasn't been set to private in his personal settings. It would almost be better if he'd block everything from outside of friends view because a lot of things on his page shouldn't be public view anyway.
I intend to set any stranger straight if one were to show up but it's the idea he's trying to use my horse as a panty getter. It really bothers me. I just really wish he'd do the right thing for once and take down the pictures of my horse. It's doing more harm than good on his end anyway. Especially if he does get a girl wanting to meet the horse.
You are making a big deal out of something that can be handled so much easier.

I know how this could bother you but the best countermeasure on something like this is the truth.

Simply write on your wall the exactly the circumstances that occurred WITHOUT embellishments so that anyone reading can make up their own minds. If you go all crazy over this I can guarantee that it will be you that will look bad..not him.

Drop any contact with him and DO NOT reply or respond to anything he may send other than "look on MY wall for the truth" and LEAVE it at that.

The quieter more sanely you appear the more credible you will appear.
     
    10-11-2010, 11:12 AM
  #7
Weanling
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Originally Posted by Spyder    
You are making a big deal out of something that can be handled so much easier.

I know how this could bother you but the best countermeasure on something like this is the truth.

Simply write on your wall the exactly the circumstances that occurred WITHOUT embellishments so that anyone reading can make up their own minds. If you go all crazy over this I can guarantee that it will be you that will look bad..not him.

Drop any contact with him and DO NOT reply or respond to anything he may send other than "look on MY wall for the truth" and LEAVE it at that.

The quieter more sanely you appear the more credible you will appear.
Agree.
     
    10-11-2010, 01:30 PM
  #8
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Other than having a letter sent to him saying he needed to stay away from me and requesting he remove the photos I've had no contact with him. He's the one contacting my sister and my students who have nicely asked him to stop contacting them.
The letter was my dads idea. He's a retired lawyer and law professor and said because of his unpredictable violent nature he thought it best to keep him away from me and my animals. This side of him didn't turn up until the horse came into the picture and I wouldn't put it past him to do something nasty to Sammy.
All my information and pictures are private to only my friends so anyone looking on my page including him wouldn't be able to see anything other that I'm female in Washington State.
     
    10-11-2010, 01:47 PM
  #9
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I should add I think I have a note on there about the whole thing when it happened and the few people (about 5?) we both know, know what happened and why.
I just feel sorry for whatever girl get's pulled in to him and then feels like an idiot when she finds out he doesn't really have a horse.
But yes all contact has been dropped.
     
    10-11-2010, 06:41 PM
  #10
Foal
What a jerk! I could never get involved with a guy like him (referring to the girls that like him because he 'has a horse'). Honestly, I think those girls are just a little bit ignorant for wanting to be with a guy just because he supposedly has a horse. Especially when they probably don't know anything when it comes to horses.
     

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