Originally Posted by redneckprincess70
I feed at least once a day and clean the barn every other day. She cleans Mon, Wed & Fri. I clean Tues, Thurs, Sat & Sun. I also buy my own horses grain and hay, pay for vet and farrier.
Originally Posted by redneckprincess
OK, everyone. Let me clear a few things up. First off, I have paid for and my husband and I have done all the fencing, barn repairs, mowing and up keep of MIL's property. Including the house. When she passes away, it will be ours anyway. We spend at least two hours there everyday. Some days she does morning feedings before I get there. I have paid the vet and farrier for her horses care along with mine. I have paid for all hay and straw for both horses since their arrival. I also paid 3/4 the cost for her horse when she bought it. Along with the cost for transporting it. She never even rides, let alone brush or do anything else with her mare. I have done all of it. She wanted the horse, as a lawn ornamant, and me do all the work.
The reason I was ranting is because she's mad the horse wasn't offered to her, so she doesn't want me to have it.
It seems you have changed the amount of what you do vs what the MIL does from when you originally posted.
Not that I do not believe you, but we were going on what you posted.
And honestly, it does not matter WHAT she wants a horse for. Geez. If she likes them and lawn ornaments that is her business. As of right now it is her property.
You can still get the horse by:
1. Offering the MIL that you will do ALL of the work for all of the horses from now on.
2. Getting the horse and taking it some where else.
3. Riding the horse where it is at.