if it wasn't in the sales contract that she could use Amber then , legally she can't Amber is no longer horse, if she wants to ride her she can work out a lease with you or should not have sold her. Personally I see no problem with her VISITING Amber but FROM THE GROUND. As for the blanket, if it was sold to you, it is your property and she has no rights to it. She's not being a good friend by any means. I agree with churumbeque that you should lock the blankets away and let the BM and BO and anyone else it may concern that this woman is not to ride Amber. If it escalates (she tries to take/sell the blanket and/or ride Amber) make it known that she is not to go anywhere near Amber and cut all connections.
Equestrianism; 10% luck, 20% skill, 15% concentrated power of will, 5% pleasure, 50% pain and 100% reason to remember you're absolutely insane to be riding a beast that big.
Last edited by Samstead; 09-29-2013 at 03:13 PM.