Just FYI.. I am, as I keep telling everyone. I have a HUGE story that's been going on for the past 3-4 years now, if I could tell everyone I would because it would help clear everything up and maybe make people understand better! But as it is, I can't because it's personal. And because of that fact, nobody should be calling ME the bad person. If you want a bad person then you should look at those who .... nevermind.
Just.. "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all."
I don't even know why I'm letting people on this forum get to me so much... I got people here where I live who know everything my family and I are going through and understand me COMPLETELY... I WISH I could see my horse every day instead of maybe once a month..
I am glad that you feel that you are doing well despite your circumstances, that's a great thing. I am a foster parent, I wish that for all my kids.
But then you ask us to understand something that you won't explain. That's impossible.
Then there's been something ongoing for the past few years, well heck, how does that affect the horse TODAY?
It's all excuses, your horse needs a vet, you are refusing to get one. I'm not a vet, but from what you described, I think your horse might have broken a bone.
I can't imagine a situation where my foster kids wouldn't see a hospital for a broken bone because they had personal issues going on a few years now - how is that relevant?
It's neglect and abuse. And it's not acceptable.