Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: The woods in the mountains of Appalachia
Well Lakota, i'm happy for you and cograts on being pregnant, wishing you the best of luck!!! Usually around here when you get married young there is a big reason, and its not a favorite custom around here.
The way our story went is that Hubby and I were best friends in high school, and then we graduated, and lost touch for a year. Then I split with my ex because he was jealous of my horses (no surprise there) And after about 2 weeks of talking and hanging out and helping him rebuild his grandparents house after it burnt, we got together. So after about 1 1/2 years we decided we wanted to get married, and we were planning all of this and about 2 months before our wedding, I found out I was pregnant (i was not at all happy about it at the time, plus I was mega bitch and demanded ice cream LOL) *i was 16-18 wks when I found out* Once I started getting used to the idea, I knew we weren't ready, and was heart broken because I wanted to wait. Well we got married in NOV, and 6 days after our wedding I lost the baby at 24wks. (bring on the sadness, sorry) It was horrible, I didn't think we would make it thru, but we have and we're still going well and strong. I was sooo depressed after all this happened, and I still had my two older geldings to take care of. Because they were older I didn't do too much with them, and I hinted I wanted another horse. And just like that I found my paint mare on the net, and she was close to home, and at a reasonable price for being unbroken. He got her for me for Valentine's day, tho she didn't come home till april because of the weather. She helped pull me through my depression, along with my geldings. She is my angel, along with my loving husband. Its been hard, and I would like to start barrel racing again (the main reason I wanted her), but she's also become my other best friend.
I never thought I could be so happy, and have a husband who likes horses, and supports me any way he can (plus he claims 2 of my horses LOL). Its not a pretty story, and not a very happy one...but there it is.. :) *Its ok, I know its going to be a shocker,and your going to tell me its horrible, but I have my horses and friends and family and the forum for support ;) YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!!
~Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.~