Bagheera - I think I do notice it. It's not just that though, I find there are lots of horse people (especially girls) our age who are really forward about what they know. I find people respect these girls experience because they comment on things etc. However being quiet most people just assume I don't really know anything at all. I'm no expert, but I know enough, and sometimes more than these forward girls. It's interesting though because once you get older people seem to expect horse people to be more quiet and reserved.
I think I'm falling for another horse and I don't know what to do