Originally Posted by Skyseternalangel
I can relate with the not riding = major suck
I haven't ridden since February so it's beginning to really bug me. I'm sure he is
How could you do that to him?
If horses could talk, I wonder what they're say!
Haha I know. I frequently think about the poor dude and how awful it must be
Originally Posted by Mckellar
I have tunnel vision on what I want and don't want outside distractions.( that's boys who tend to do that and is why many girls drop out of riding)
Thats why you need to find a man that not only tolerates the horses, but funds them as well. As an equestrian, it is one of many secrets to a happy marriage
That was one of my requirements. I needed a man that at least tolerated horses, and understood that some days, I just needed to ride. My husband isn't into horses, but he helps with chores and likes to pet and love on mine.
Turns out my horse actually prefers my husband to me now. Go figure
Originally Posted by Gilly
Greetings to all the fellow 20-somethings on this here forum
Lakota, my sister is 21 and getting married on November 3 to her boyfriend of 7 years. She gets odd comments as well because she's so young and she openly admits to wanting to start a family so people tend to be a bit "WTF?" about it.
But then again they don't know my sister and haters going to hate.
I got the whole "your too young" thing from a lot of people. Everyone was asking me why I wanted to get married so young. My big thing was "why not?" I found the man I knew I wanted to marry, so what would waiting 5 years til it was more "normal age" do?
Same with being preggers. I want a family, always have, and I want to be a young mom. I want to be done having kids by 30. My oldest will be 18 before I even turn 40! Then when they start having kids of their own, maybe I can keep up with them! LOL My husband says the same thing, he's only 22 (going on 23) himself. We're happy with where we are at and that is all that matters.