We saw a Belgian cross (at least I think it was belgian...) a couple months ago - the trainer who worked with Éowyn had it at his place, his daughter was selling it. He was CUTE - red roan, big drafty feet and head - but probably only 15-something or maybe just barely 16 hands. Kevin said it wasn't big enough. :P We also weren't seriously looking - if we were, I would have tried a little more persuasion (read: smack him upside the head with a frying pan if he turned down that cutie because he 'wasn't tall enough'!)
I've never driven before. I can see why it would be scary, gypsy - I think I would feel like I didn't have very much control or communication being behind the horse like that. Did you have a bad experience or is it just the idea of it?