Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Vancouver, British Columbia
Thanks everyone. I just needed to rant. I know mom feels bad that they are on their own but she is concentrating on them so much she is pushing me away. I guess she figures I have Rob so I am taken care of BUT I am still their only child and its not so much about money, mom and dad helped me out when I was a single parent for years. I do know that my SIL would be in a better position if she downsized her vehicle (Which she LOVES and can't give up) and sold the trailer which she still is paying for and rarely uses. I used to have the same vehicle she has and I downsized because what it costs in gas. If it was me, mom would have no problem saying sell the truck and sell the horse but she can't say anything to SIL oh no. I think I would have more respect for SIL if she tried to improve her own situation rather than relying on my parents. She is always saying she can't afford this or that BUT...
Anyhoo I am done, thanks again.