Yes BM is barn manager. BO is barn owner. Thanks for the well wishes I'm begging the hubby to buy me a little land so I don't have to board. T
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Try this. You have to find a reason why HE wants to live on some land. It has to be his idea and all of the advantages he will have by owning and living on a small spread. Don't mention the fencing and the water issues and the fact the horses need a barn to be housed in and all that expensive stuff. But he will have his own man cave, and space to swing the cat around without hitting an object.
The art of a relationship, and getting what you want, is to get the other person to do what you want them to do, while, they think they are doing what they want to do. Men do this to women all the time. :)
So go to it critter sitter.