Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: East Midlands, UK
Sorry, more of you have posted during my last comment.
SpiritLifter, your post made me cry, Indi used to do the exact same thing. What you've said is so true about falling in love with another for different reasons.
BarrelWannabe, it is so difficult not to compare them, but you are right, they're so different, and I should love Red for being Red. Plus, I did only get her in March, it's not long really.
texasgal, you're right, it's such a terrible pain, and like I said further up, Indi set the bar so high... I have to stop comparing them, otherwise I'll get nowhere!
LetAGrlShowU, Indi came to me quite naughty, but it didn't take long for us to just click, it was like she could read my mind! You're right that I shouldn't put the pressure on Red, it's not fair on her, and it'll only push her away. I think you've made me realise I'm trying to force a relationship with Red, and obviously that's just no good. You're right, she's only a baby, she will change.
Again, thank you all for posting, you've made me feel so much better! I really appreciate all your comments, you have all been so kind, understanding, relate-able and have put so much truth and thought into your posts. I can't thank you all enough. I should have come back here sooner. Thanks guys!