So I finally faced reality and moved my horse to a new boarding facility yesterday. I was boarding him at a ranch, the people were really great, but they only ride western ( which I love, but we ride english) and while they had trails to ride, they didn't have an arena where I could practice with Vin, plus he really didn't get along with his pasture mate at all. I gave notice and paid for the month of April and moved Vin to a stable just 3 miles away. Here he will have 2-4training sessions weekly as well as we will get to do our lessons together. We will be working on basic Dressage which will be great for him and me! Now both of my sons and I get to lesson at the same place and I know we are all getting the quality training we need as a beginner, you can't ask for much more!