Originally Posted by Hazels
Already stated I'm not doing it without Cass. Twice, actually.
I know, I know...but I can't go back to Kelly after Gray Guy! I actually enjoyed my lesson so much more on him.
Well, you can't have both, so you have to choose which is more important: Allowing your friend to ride her original horse, grey guy, and you ride Kelly (or) ride grey guy and make your friend ride Kelly, when she 'sobbed through half the lesson' If my friend started sobbing at any point during the lesson due to a decision I had made, I would rescind that decision and switch back to my original horse. I would rather watch my friend ride grey guy while I waited for my lesson than make her cry so I could ride at the same time. You know what I'm saying?
I still don't think it should be up to you who rides which horse, that is a decision reserved for the professional instructor.