Originally Posted by eventerwannabe View Post
Would you mind explaining Judecca. Im guessing that you are younger, so I would like to hear your side of this "issue."
Please and thank you! (:
I'm 18. Explain what, though, exactly?
"I can tell you that it's not jealousy. That may be the case sometimes, but not always. Guarantee it." As I said, it's not always jealousy. It's pretty easy for human beings to shrug off anything negative that's said as long as they chalk it up to jealousy. If a group of kids makes fun of a girl for being unattractive, what do we tell her? They're just jealous! Of course that's going to make us feel
better, but in reality, that's not always the case. I've known horses that I've insulted and felt no desire whatsoever to possess or even be around, so I can tell you that it's not always jealousy.
"Adults apparently don't realise we don't all have the some moral and ethical codes that dictate our behaviour. ;)" Of course, that was sort of sarcastic. But we all have different ethical codes, right? Some of us bite our tongues and only say things that are nice - If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. But some of us don't believe in that. Some of us believe it's better to speak the honest, brutal truth, regardless of others' reactions. And we believe others should be able to accept that - although not necessarily like it or approve. I don't approve of biting my tongue, but you know what? If someone else wants to do it, then have at it. And I think it's only fair that if someone else doesn't approve of such brutal honesty and speaking ones mind, that's fine, but don't say no one can just because that's not your way of life. I speak my mind because I think that's something we should all do. It's liberating. Imagine how much less stressed everyone would be if they could just say what they thought! Imagine the money saved on therapy! I don't expect others to be that way, but I expect (or at least ask that they do) accept my decision to be that way. Doesn't make me immature, mean, or bitchy. I just don't believe in stifling myself in the interest of what others think is and isn't appropriate. I'd rather decide for myself what is and isn't appropriate, and let others decide for themselves.
Wow, that was such a huge rant. Sorry! XD This is just something I feel very strongly about. I've received a lot
of crap from people - even family has rejected me - because of how I am. And no matter how hard I try to explain that it's just what I believe, that's all, no one seems to get it.