Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Washington, USA.
I have a few questions. How old are you, if you don't mind my asking? And who's name is the car under? If it is YOUR car, as in YOUR name on the registration, you can take it whenever you want to. But, not having the whole story, I don't know how much your grandparents do for you, and how much you do for them. If they are driving you, does that mean they sit and wait in the car for the two+ hours you're there? Because that would hardly be fair. Are you paying for the gas to get there and back? These are all things to make sure you think about before you get too upset. If you are truly doing all these things [paying for gas, your horse, helping out at the house to make up for them driving you, etc, then I would have a sit-down, mature chat with them about how much it means to you to see your horse every day, and what you guys can work out to make that happen. Full care board isn't the end of the world, and be prepared that you may have to compensate some. Make sure they know how grateful you are for their help, if they don't feel appreciated, they may not want to do these things for you anymore. Sometimes, even when we do try to make someone feel important, it all gets lost in translation. Good luck!
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