Well I decided to end the lease. Actually she ended it first, with an angry email about how we "misled" her and she had no idea it was a lease, she thought it was a "shared" horse! She also claimed to have no idea the horse actually belongs to my husband, which was made very clear from the beginning. Later she emailed again begging me to let her back in and suggesting we just forget this whole incident. I told her I needed some time to think things through. But very soon I decided I did not want to continue with any of this, and my husband supported me on that. He offerred to be the one to tell her, since he owns the horse, and he has gone to do that now. I KNOW she is going to break down crying and beg and plead, but we still have no idea who else could have trimmed the horse's feet so do not want to allow anyone on the property anymore. I spent several days feeling very sick and mentally stressed over this whole thing, and that is not a basis for a healthy relationship at all!