You don't know what is going on in these peoples lives so its not fair to judge them for not spending time with their horses. They might be so busy doing child care, working to afford the bills and then spending time with a significant other that there is simply not enough time. Heck, I have not ridden in a few days because I am either studying for school or working and by the time I get to the barn it dark, no lights no ride. Its not your place or anyone else's to judge these peoples lives. If a person is into drugs, first its not nice to spread rumors around the internet so you should not discuss that. Second if they are into drugs that's a learning experience and a whole battle that they have to fight should they decide to pursue sobriety. They have a bigger fight and things to worry about than riding their horse. Would you want someone who is under the influence to be around horses? Its actually better that they are not interested in the horse at this time.