Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Just south of sanity
Barry, my SO isn't horsey and I prefer it that way. The horses are my thing, not his. He has his own interests.
He'll ride occasionally, but it's not something he has a passion for. I'll go to comic cons with him because that's his thing, and he enjoys it when I show an interest. Compromise is key in any relationship.
Besides, the OP merely asked if men who ride were hot. She didn't ask about relationships, just whether or not men who ride are sexy. Some are, some aren't. Just like women.
Arrogance, abuse, nor sexual preference were part of the question, so I'm not sure how those even got into the conversation.