My mare's old owner let kids ride her in a Tom Thumb . I have spent years trying to find something to work for her . Right now I'm ridding her with a rope halter ,but I want something that gives "clearer" signals .
She has a thick tongue , low palate , and has a slight roman nose . I've tried snaffles and a few curbs on her ,but nothing has worked . Her teeth are fine . Also I have soft hands .