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        10-30-2008, 01:13 AM
      #1
    Yearling
    Exclamation My BO is going to TALK with me! REALLY NEED HELP PLEASE

    I knew this day was going to come and it will be here tomorrow!

    So my BO/boss called me on tues asking if I was going to come in. I said no because my mom was up in seattle. Then she's like well you didnt tell me. And I was like yes we did. So anyways Im mad because of the way she called up and her tone of voice. And I guess I didnt keep my cool to much and said the yes we did in a "snotty" way.

    And then she called right back after like 3 mins but I didnt pick up.
    I then called my mom and asked her to talk with my BO becuase I knew she was POD.

    Well she was and now she wants to talk with me! What in the world do I say. Im already affraid of her I DO NOT do well with confrontations, especially since my anger is already been built up and kept in. I honestly don't know what to do!

    RRRR Im so mad and I can not be mad for this, I honestly don't think I can handle this, really im already freakin panicing! Oh please give me advice or anything. Im really starting to get scared, im already bawling. I can't do this maybe I should just go up to my cousins or something she's at least 3 hours away. That's enough distance...
         
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        10-30-2008, 01:21 AM
      #2
    Started
    How old are you?
         
        10-30-2008, 01:47 AM
      #3
    Yearling
    Im 20. But what does that have to do with it?
         
        10-30-2008, 02:00 AM
      #4
    Started
    Well you sound much younger to me and I wondered.
         
        10-30-2008, 02:05 AM
      #5
    Yearling
    Oh, well im scared to sh** Honestly I have been treated like dirt at this barn and I have taken it for a very long time. I just do my work, take care of my horse, and go.
         
        10-30-2008, 11:58 AM
      #6
    Trained
    Sometimes you just have to take a butt chewing and go on......

    I HATE that...but, it's life! :roll: Unless you want to quit or leave the Barn.
         
        10-30-2008, 12:04 PM
      #7
    Yearling
    ^yup...just stick it out. Listen to whatever she has to say. Be respectful and be the bigger woman and admit where you are wrong! No ones perfect and you need to keep your cool. Remember your 3 c's cool calm and collected. If you remain this way then it will be harder for her to get pissed.take it use the knowlege that that you will be given at this talk. Always something to learn!
         
        10-30-2008, 12:56 PM
      #8
    Green Broke
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by tbenitez    
    ^yup...just stick it out. Listen to whatever she has to say. Be respectful and be the bigger woman and admit where you are wrong! No ones perfect and you need to keep your cool. Remember your 3 c's cool calm and collected. If you remain this way then it will be harder for her to get pissed.take it use the knowlege that that you will be given at this talk. Always something to learn!

    Great advice.
         
        10-30-2008, 02:24 PM
      #9
    Trained
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by tbenitez    
    ^yup...just stick it out. Listen to whatever she has to say. Be respectful and be the bigger woman and admit where you are wrong! No ones perfect and you need to keep your cool. Remember your 3 c's cool calm and collected. If you remain this way then it will be harder for her to get pissed.take it use the knowlege that that you will be given at this talk. Always something to learn!

    Yup Yup... that's what I was thinking too....Great Advice here.
         
        10-30-2008, 02:47 PM
      #10
    Showing
    Good advise!

    The days of taking you out back and shooting you are pretty much over (although I don't know where you live) All she can do is yell and tell you to take your horse out of there.

    I would spend the rest of my day looking for a new place even if it's temporary - at least it would be productive. Getting sick over someithing that MAY happen (even if it's likely) is counter productive and accomplishes nothing but getting your insides in a knot. Get productive.
         

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