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        10-29-2011, 11:50 PM
      #11
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    In my opinion, this person has not demonstrated enough maturithy and trustworthyness to warrant a second chance, AT ALL. I would not draw up any contract with her, except a sale contract if you decide to as to buy the horse. She cannot be trusted to care for the horse and value the great opportunity you have extended to her. Just because you have a written contract , will not mean she complies. Yes, you can make one and have it have a clause that means non payment for a certain amount of time means you get the horse. But honestly, I would not want her on my property any more.

    I would tell her, she can take the horse, or sell the horse. That's it. It would be sad if she took the horse, but I think having that person in your life at all will be head and heartache.

    Good luck on your new ownersdhip. I assume the Palomino is the "small" horse, (you did not explain that very clearly at first) and if he is still a stud, are you planning to geld him?
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        10-30-2011, 04:08 AM
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    This may be the time to seek legal counsel....
    Also, I strongly recommend you have your stallion gelded, ASAP.
         
        11-01-2011, 04:36 PM
      #13
    Foal
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    Originally Posted by tinyliny    
    In my opinion, this person has not demonstrated enough maturithy and trustworthyness to warrant a second chance, AT ALL. I would not draw up any contract with her, except a sale contract if you decide to as to buy the horse. She cannot be trusted to care for the horse and value the great opportunity you have extended to her. Just because you have a written contract , will not mean she complies. Yes, you can make one and have it have a clause that means non payment for a certain amount of time means you get the horse. But honestly, I would not want her on my property any more.

    I would tell her, she can take the horse, or sell the horse. That's it. It would be sad if she took the horse, but I think having that person in your life at all will be head and heartache.

    Good luck on your new ownersdhip. I assume the Palomino is the "small" horse, (you did not explain that very clearly at first) and if he is still a stud, are you planning to geld him?
    What she said. Especially the gelding part.
         
        11-01-2011, 04:52 PM
      #14
    Foal
    YES, we are gelding him ASAP. My neighbor has about 17 minis and several of them are mares. I don't want any fences down because of that. LOL.

    The vet will be here at 9:30 am to discuss immunizations, coggins testing, and gelding as well as the bigger horse's ears.

    Thanks so much guys! My mind is really set at ease. I am also meeting with the owner of the big horse in about 15 minutes so hopefully that will go well too!
         
        11-01-2011, 05:05 PM
      #15
    Yearling
    Please let us know how it goes. But stand your ground. What she is doing is horrible and I wouldnt want her on my property either.
         
        11-01-2011, 09:53 PM
      #16
    Foal
    I agree please let us know how it went!
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