It's odd how different things affect different people..
I obviously don't find posts that say this isn't right a problem, I have said so myself.
There are people saying that the OP is young and not the decision maker, that is probably true, but I find myself becoming increasingly uneasy by people telling this kid that she has a rotten mother, because that is what it feels like.
Once again, it's the internet, and it's a youngster, we don't know if we have the whole picture, we don't know what the parent said for sure, maybe it was "If you don't tidy your bedroom we'll get rid of the pony"
There is a world of difference between saying this situation sucks, to saying you suck, to saying your parent sucks.
Honest I'm not playing mod, just thinking out loud