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post #11 of 13 Old 05-05-2011, 09:13 PM
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How long is it until you recieve this horse?

I hate to sound like a kill joy, but seeing as you said you know "basically nothing" about horses I would really recommend that you stay away from this. It would be different if this was a dead-broke old school master, but this is a pregnant mare. It really takes a lot more experience to properly care for horses than it looks. You can read all the books you want but when it comes down to actually doing it, it's a LOT different (trust me on this one).

There are other, better ways for you to enjoy horses before you rush into buying one. I know the offer of a FREE horse is SUPER enticing- and a foal to match! But the money on the pregnant mare, possibly training the mare later, caring for the foal and training the foal will far exceed your expectations- the horse world is VERY expensive, don't even start about what's needed for a mare and her foal.

Now that I've said that:

Are there any barns around you? If there are, I would really recommend volunteering there, even if you can't afford lessons for some reason. It will provide you with invaluable experience that you'll be thankful for after getting your mare.

Read, read, READ when you are not at the aforementioned barn.

As for punishing a horse, usually waving your arms or brandishing a lead rope (not hitting them, waving it at them) usually works well enough. If a horse does not heed that, a light tap or smack on the body follows. If THAT does not work, make your horse MOVE. Take her out of the cross-ties/etc and circle her if need be. She'll quickly learn misbehaving is no fun.
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post #12 of 13 Old 05-05-2011, 09:46 PM Thread Starter
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How long is it until you recieve this horse?

I hate to sound like a kill joy, but seeing as you said you know "basically nothing" about horses I would really recommend that you stay away from this. It would be different if this was a dead-broke old school master, but this is a pregnant mare. It really takes a lot more experience to properly care for horses than it looks. You can read all the books you want but when it comes down to actually doing it, it's a LOT different (trust me on this one).

There are other, better ways for you to enjoy horses before you rush into buying one. I know the offer of a FREE horse is SUPER enticing- and a foal to match! But the money on the pregnant mare, possibly training the mare later, caring for the foal and training the foal will far exceed your expectations- the horse world is VERY expensive, don't even start about what's needed for a mare and her foal.

Now that I've said that:

Are there any barns around you? If there are, I would really recommend volunteering there, even if you can't afford lessons for some reason. It will provide you with invaluable experience that you'll be thankful for after getting your mare.

Read, read, READ when you are not at the aforementioned barn.

As for punishing a horse, usually waving your arms or brandishing a lead rope (not hitting them, waving it at them) usually works well enough. If a horse does not heed that, a light tap or smack on the body follows. If THAT does not work, make your horse MOVE. Take her out of the cross-ties/etc and circle her if need be. She'll quickly learn misbehaving is no fun.
Cinder, thank you for warnings, tips, etc. AS far as the expense is concerned, we are well aware what we are getting into there and THAT we are not concerned about.

This has been more of a long thought out process than I may have made it seem to be. Living where we do, FREE horses, cattle, etc are not a rarity. And because we have so much land...and a barn...we have had multiple offers in the past to take on free horses and have turned them down. This offer has come at a time in our lives where we actually have the time to invest into this learning process. And we are not totally alone, we have a great vet that has cared for dogs, cats, goats, donkeys, and various animals we have or have had. As I mentioned earlier, I have a very close friend who has been breeding/raising/selling horses for many years, and as I found out this afternoon, my bf's father and grandfather raised horses for many years (how bf has failed to mention this up til now is beyond me) and they live 5 miles from our place. MY point, is although bf and I are somewhat blind, we have a wealth of resources at our fingertips to help us in this new endeavor. I joined this forum to add to those resources.

I do appreciate your cautions and advice and hope to continue to hear from you!!
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post #13 of 13 Old 05-06-2011, 04:58 PM
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Cinder, thank you for warnings, tips, etc. AS far as the expense is concerned, we are well aware what we are getting into there and THAT we are not concerned about.

This has been more of a long thought out process than I may have made it seem to be. Living where we do, FREE horses, cattle, etc are not a rarity. And because we have so much land...and a barn...we have had multiple offers in the past to take on free horses and have turned them down. This offer has come at a time in our lives where we actually have the time to invest into this learning process. And we are not totally alone, we have a great vet that has cared for dogs, cats, goats, donkeys, and various animals we have or have had. As I mentioned earlier, I have a very close friend who has been breeding/raising/selling horses for many years, and as I found out this afternoon, my bf's father and grandfather raised horses for many years (how bf has failed to mention this up til now is beyond me) and they live 5 miles from our place. MY point, is although bf and I are somewhat blind, we have a wealth of resources at our fingertips to help us in this new endeavor. I joined this forum to add to those resources.

I do appreciate your cautions and advice and hope to continue to hear from you!!
Ok, your boyfriend raising horses makes me feel a lot better!

Good luck and if you have any other questions I'll try my best to check back here and offer my two cents!

Good luck!
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