Not in a mess as such but..
I had a phone call from a friend a few weeks back asking if she could borrow my side reins. Not a problem say I, come on over, so she came and I lent her my dressage whip, side reins and a girth for a clinic she was going to.
Last week she says she is bringing the stuff back, except for the side reins, because she is waiting for her new pair to arrive. All was well until she had actually left, then I'm scratching my head wondering..
How come she has my number one best side reins, while she waits for her own pair to come, and I am using and old crappy pair...surely she should have the old pair, and I should have the good ones *scratches head* don't know how that happened.
I did do a good deed that backfired, but it wasn't me who suffered. I gave an old tumble dryer to a friend when we got a new one. The old one was only in her place a couple of weeks before it caught fire and burned her kitchen out