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post #1 of 8 Old 09-11-2008, 07:06 PM Thread Starter
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oh boy

i just got back from the hospital and chilling with my friend who has cancer. he was getting chemo today. tomorrow is prolly the last day. it was aweful. he looked sick the entire time. and he slept alot. i have had a crush on him for awhile and even after he lost his hair i still liked him. i dont know what to do. he is having surgery in like 2 months in NY to remove the tumors. i have been crying sence i got home. it doesnt help that i "dont feel good". i dont know what to do. he hugged me and said im going to bed and rubbed my back when he said it. he just needs a friend right now, but i really like him.

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post #2 of 8 Old 09-11-2008, 07:14 PM
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oh sweetie im sorry :( i wanna cry for you and your friend. Sounds like you truly care about him, more than a friend, something real. Just continue to be there for him.....im sure it means the world to him to have you there as his friend. Try and stay positive, and keep things up beat for him as well. It's wonderful that you are caring about him through all of this.
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i have only knowen him for like less than a year. its aweful. hes 5 years older than i am. i have been crying all day. i dont know what to do. i pray all the time for him and his family. i dont know what to do with myself.

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post #4 of 8 Old 09-11-2008, 07:26 PM
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My heart goes out to you and your friend. You sound like an amazing friend. I always hear about people who are stuck in hospital and they find out who their real friends are.

Spend time with him, when he is up to it, let him rest if he needs to. Bring him little pieces of home for when he is away, a photo frame with a picture of the both of you, or his family etc.
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this was the 2nd time to see him. he doesnt know i like him and hes happy single, i hate being single. i thought it was going to be worse than it was. i thought he was going to be throwing up alot, but he just layed there. i had to "unplug him" when he had to get up, cover him up when he was cold. on the way home he offered me the front and i told him he could have it. it is soo stressful. when i first found out i cried for like a week. it was hard to look at him w/o crying. now i just want to hug him and tell him i love him.

~Erin~
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post #6 of 8 Old 09-11-2008, 09:37 PM
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well, stick by him and if you guys are meant to be, things will work out.

not to be too forward or nosey, but how old is he? you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
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post #7 of 8 Old 09-11-2008, 09:59 PM Thread Starter
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hes only 20. he will be 21 next month

~Erin~
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post #8 of 8 Old 07-16-2009, 09:09 PM Thread Starter
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update!!!

he has had his surgery and is really good now. tomorrow will be the 1 year anniversary of me finding out.

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