Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: I was born in Germany, raised in Texas.
TBJ, I really couldn't say it better than anything that's already been said. I'm a mom too, of teenagers. My oldest is almost 17. I also married my first boyfriend who's been in my life since I was 15. (I'm turning....cough cough, choke....eh hemmmm.....40 next month). So I'm not going to condemn you for wanting to commit young or getting married too soon, yada yada...BUT, my husband has NEVER EVER put any conditions on my plans and dreams. I was a horse nut when he met me. Horses came first from the start. LOL! As a matter of fact, our first date was him coming to my house and mucking out stalls. And believe me, he was NOT a horse person. Still isn't really, but he will do WHATEVER it takes to make me happy to this very day. He's grown into my passion a lot over the years and we're now talking about a man who works for Texas Instruments as an engineer on computer chip robots for a paycheck and is just as capable fixing a New Holland 276 hay baler and bale hay for a happy wife. What I'm trying to say is that if he was truly in love and wanted a happy future with you, he would not start your future by putting this kind of emotional pressure on you. Quite the opposite. He should be encouraging your dreams and say GO GIRL! It sounds like you have a once in a life time opportunity! Oh my gosh, take it!!!!!! I so wished at your age that I could have made a career out of my passion for horses. I never had the avenues to show seriously and go beyond our local activities so I went to school to be a teacher, which is a wonderful career, but a horse career would have been a true dream come true. Like the others said, a year is NOTHING! It'll go by so quickly and if he does love you and wants a life with you, he will be there for you with open arms when you return. And yes, Skype is a wonderful thing! LOL!