Accept your horse for who she is : a horse that is still learning jumping. You have nothing to compare her to since she's an individual.
Now from a personal perspective..
There are occasions when I simply don't want to ride. I still enjoy my horses company and we go hang out. I may not ride on a nice day but we'll go for a bike in the woods instead (I lead him). I'll free lunge him or do liberty work or teach him stupid tricks. I may not be riding him but he's still my buddy.
Do you have a friendly relationship like that with your horse? Maybe you're not clicking?
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