So I just called one of the trainers that are going to be at the ranch I am volunteering at to let her know that I was coming by on sunday, and I didn't get a very happy response.
She at first said that she was lost and she said that she doesn't understand why she needs to know and that she is going to be teaching lessons all day and how she isn't interested in volunteer work, and frankly I'm a little bit turned off by what she said and how she said it.. It is PERFECTLY fine with me if she does not have the time or the need to see me, but I don't think she had to throw it back out in my face that way.. I even told her that it was fine that I don't do anything and that I can just sit in and watch but I insisted that I was just informing her, because I was told my her boss (jesse, the BO) to do so.
And it was HOW she said it too, she sounded angry and she said "this is just how jesse works sometimes I don't understand why he would think that I would be able to see you on sunday." And it came to the point where there was nothing more for me to say to comfort her (yes I actually had to sort of comfort her in a way) and all I could say was "okay.." and she sounded apologetic at the last minute, but seriously......
I dunno it doesn't sound right to me. I understand where she's coming from and I'd be a little bit mad too but to sort of refuse me like that was a bit rude... now I am having second thoughts on even showing up on sunday.... :(