Sorry for the double question. After much thought, umming and ahhhing over what to do, I have decided to keep Cinder, send her to the trainer in January and see where that goes. I think us both being boss mares and me win hormonal just frustrated the situation.
Additionally - for those of you who have had children, how long did you keep riding after you found out you were pregnant? Did you stop early or keep going til you were due?