I hear you! Sometimes people mean well, but it doesn't come out that way when they type it! :(
Sometimes people get irritated when they think someone is doing something wrong. This is not meant as an excuse.
I get angry sometimes when I see certain things, but I try not to type angry. And what I think, or have been taught by a trainer, can be very different than another trainer's opinion. Hehe!
I went to a Leslie Desmond clinic last Feb. I absolutely love her methods. I have met some people who absolutely hate her methods...
Ah well, *sigh,* everybody has his/her own way of doing things.
I usually don't critique for this reason. Ok, I play it safe
You're to big for your horse
Why are you riding in a dress?
Your contact on your horses mouth is too loose
Ok, on # one. If my wt. Does not bother the horse, does not cause any problems, then my wt. Is just fine for this horse! There are guidelines, but there are no rules. Some guidelines don't fit everyone.
# two, (Well, I don't usually ride in a dress, actually I almost never wear a dress, I'm a jeans kind of gal...) If I want to ride in a dress, it's my business.
# three, Gee, I always ride with loose reins. Christy responds so much better and faster that way. And basically I don't use the reins for much except an emergency. I use body language.
Except for the emergency turn to prevent bucking or bolting, all I have to do is touch or gently wiggle the rein and the rest of the instruction comes from my body language, including whoa.
Hay, I'm happy! 8)