Right my boyfriend at the time helped me relise my childhood dream of having my own horse and he brought me a horse, we have since split. My mum was struggling paying rent for the yard she rents and said I could keep my horse with her ponies and my 18 year old sisters horse (She don't pay rent ect mum does pays all for her apart from now and then her boyfriend buys stuff for her) As long as I payed rent and pay towards the food for my horse cause there was no point me buying my own food as it would take up space and no point having double feeds there as she's on the same as some of my mums. Im a single parent and looking for work to get more coming in, My mum know says I owe her like £300 (shes brought stuff with out notifying me) and now she's telling me I should send my horse to the collage my sister studies at (which will mean there will only be four days a month I can actually go and see my horse casue I only have 4 days a month where my daughter goes to her dads parents) or sell my horse... Mum has being going on about how im to fat to ride my horse too (she does need more build up on her top line but I ride her once every two weeks and that's if my mum allows me too, My 18 sis rides her a lot to help build her up and even then that's with out them asking me first or again letting me know) I don't even have a key to the gate to the yard or the tack room so I can't do nothing with my horse enless they are there anyway. So mums been really nasty today all because I told her I don't want to send my horse to the collage and I broke down in tears and said I would rather sell her so least im not feeling like im letting my horse down by hardly being able to see her ect and so she's not being wasted and my mum rekons she wont allow me to sell her till I pay her £300 for the stuff she's brought her like extra hay and girths ect she didnt need at the time ect, So I said you can have that money when I sell her so she said or you can just give us your horse and scrap the £300 you owe me and you can ride her next year when you lose weight, Im 12 1/2 stone 5 foot 6, My horse is a dwb 16.2 and her privious owner who had her many years was same height but 15 plus stone and never had any problems. This horse jumps up to 6foot and could possibly go higher and is very high in dressage and also does XC... my boyf at the time payed £1000 for her and my mum said she was worth more than that, she knows privious owner and she was only that price as it was health issues that previous owner has that forced her to sell her.
Im just wondering what other people would do in this situation??
Its breaking my heart big time and its caused many hours of tears too... :'(