Well, here we go again! My legs are painfully wiggly and wobbly. Any suggestions both horseback and at home I can do to help? I have been doing a lot of no stirrup work, but I just feel like I'm bouncing everywhere when I ride without stirrups! And then I get frustrated and get overly irritated. Grr...stupid legs! By the way, my thighs seem to be loose, and my trainer says to imagine holding a card with my thigh to close it, but I can't tighten them! Any tips on that?